Follow Up to what was missing.

After my last post of going off about losing friends through the divorce process I have been thinking alot about why that happens? I have a mother who lost several friends although she is the one who did nothing wrong in the marriage, yet jackass of a cheating father still gets to keep those friends? Other people I know have had the same problems women are frowned upon as if we did something wrong? Or maybe they think we may try and take there husband? NEWS FLASH LADIES sorry but, after going through a hellish marriage and ordeal the last thing in the world that we want at that moment is another Man. Someday I hope to figure out why it is that I lost such amazing friends through the process and why in the church people look at you like you did something wrong? When a majority of the time it was the Man who committed the sin. Oh well just another question I will have to ask the lord when I make it up there someday but, in the meantime if anybody reads this don't Judge others until you know what really was going on in there life. The old saying "Walk a mile in there shoes." trust me you don't want to walk in my old shoes.